Recently, I saw the above line in a young girls profile. I was surprised. Are you resigned at such a young age, my friend? Times have changed. How could you imagine walking into the bedroom of a completely unknown person and start loving him from that moment? I could not imagine that even for a minute. Why is a young girl resigned to her fate? What is wrong with us parents so as to drive them youths to desperation?
Many of my friends often say that it is because I do not have any daughters that I dare think so differently. Is it so? I don't think so. I am convinced that the more we try to stop the boys and girls from knowing each other, the more we are forcing them to do things behind our back and that is more dangerous. They often fall prey to stalkers on the net, porno sites etc...
We (that includes me) always have two standards. One for us and another for them. Hypocrisy? Our society and life has come a long way from the old times. In fact, it was much better before. In my childhood, I used to play with boys and girls of the neighborhood. Our children? School, Tuition, Competitive exam preparation, computer, TV... no time to play around with friends or read or play some physical games...
No wonder that an 18 year old girl is driven to say that life is an adjustment!!!!
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